Why We Celebrate All the Things!
11/15/2014 09:47:00 PM Posted by mommy2twincesses
Whether or not to “lie” to our little ones about the magical
parts of childhood seem to be of much debate as of lately. And while I don’t
usually touch any topic that can be seen as a “mommy war”, this one just won’t
let me be.
I’ll take a firm stand here and let the cards fall where
they may. I will make my girls’ childhood as magical as I possibly can, and
though I enjoy it immensely, just for fun, I’ve realized there is a much
deeper, more spiritual reason for my enthusiasm.
That reason is faith. Plain and simple. I believe it’s
something that we’re born with and I refuse to stomp it out by forcing the
lenses of adulthood on my children.
At birth, we cry, and take it in good faith that someone,
namely our parents, will come to our aid.
As we age, we take it a bit further, and on wobbly legs,
take those cherished first steps, in full faith that someone is there to catch
us when we fall.
As maturity continues, our faith shifts forms, and we begin
to create our own views of the world and everything in it, and as scary as it
seems, most of those views stubbornly stick with us into adulthood. We’ll basically
be “believers” or “skeptics”.
From a parent’s standpoint, that is hallowed ground that I
pave. Whether or not to extend a practice of faith, and a belief in something
beyond ourselves is essentially in my hands. That’s positively terrifying!
And while each parent has their own reasons for parenting
the way they do, I feel compelled to share why I try to make believing in more
so very important.
A subject like the Trinity is difficult at times for even
adults to grasp. We practice in baby steps if you will, memorizing stories,
scriptures, and simple prayers. With hopes of someday understanding the
complexity of it all.
But on the other hand, faith itself, which is the absolute
cornerstone of Christianity, is belief in the unseen, complete trust if you
will, and knowing, that beyond a shadow of a doubt something we’ll never physically
see on this side of Heaven is real.
If we practice taking steps, babbling words, and every other
action under the sun, why should we not practice FAITH in terms understandable
to children?
In my humble opinion, sharing the “magic” of Santa and elves,
the Tooth Fairy, the Easter Bunny, and all the like, is sharing a practice of
faith. It’s believing that though we can’t see something, it can still be very
real. And after all, as a mother, I fully believe myself to be all of those
roles! I AM their Santa, their Elf on the Shelf, their Tooth Fairy, and their
Easter Bunny. Those things are not lies to me, they’re baby steps into faith.
They’re a foundational belief in goodness, joy, and love.
Imagine this: you’re taught during your childhood to take
things at face value. Believe in what you can see with your own eyes, in only
what you can understand and prove to be true. We’ve just destroyed faith.
Hebrews 11:1 says, “Now faith is confidence in what we hope for and assurance
about what we do not see.” Matthew 18:3 also instructs us “become like little
children” in order to inherit the kingdom. If we never allow our children to BE
LITTLE CHILDREN, how will they ever become ADULTS who are capable of belief
like a child?
I don’t know about you, but when I’m breathing life into my
children’s imaginations and fueling their wildest dreams with “things unseen”,
I FEEL like a child! My heart soars and pure joy fills my soul. Like Psalms
23:5 “my cup runneth over” in moments like these!
Now don’t misunderstand, I connect fun traditions like Santa
and the Easter Bunny to our walk with Christ every chance I get! I do that so
that we never underestimate the teachings of Deuteronomy 6:7-we talk about God
and His goodness, when we sit at home and when we walk along the road, when we
lie down and when we get up. I never allow the fun stuff to overshadow the REAL
stuff and I firmly believe that putting our faith into action in terms
understandable by children is the key to a deep, long lasting faith as an
adult.
If we can’t allow the belief in something as wholesome as
Santa, which they see portrayed in a positive light all over the world around
them, how can we expect that they’ll ever fully accept the concept of
salvation, which is almost hidden by most societies, tucked away in “special
stores” and legally separated from state affairs, such as public schools?
Now I’m no Biblical scholar, no fine teacher of The Word,
just an ugly sinner, saved by grace. I know, with full confidence that the Holy
Spirit resides in me, and chastises me when I’m out of the will of God. And
when I share beloved holiday traditions with my little ones, I’m not filled
with dread, guilt, or doubt (because those are emotions the enemy brings). On
the contrary, I’m completely overcome with love and joy that often spills down
my cheeks in tears. It’s a beautiful thing!
If Jesus himself were to step foot in my home during any
holiday celebration, especially His birthday, I’m quite certain He’d smile at
all the pomp and circumstance surrounding it! That feeling of comfort when
thinking “what would Jesus do” tells me all I need to know.
My home will be filled with traditions, with the magic of
childhood (which I’m thankful to be experiencing a second time, through the
eyes of my own babies), with joyful hearts, and with the Gospel. And for none
of that am I ashamed!
Playing Catch Up-Where Have I Been?!
10/07/2013 12:19:00 PM Posted by mommy2twincesses
Wow! It’s
been 5 months since my last post….really?! Maybe you’ve wondered where I’ve
been, but probably you didn’t realize I was even gone, but that’s okay. In limbo; that’s where I’ve been. Should I continue to blog or should I stop? It
took 5 long months to figure out the answer to that question-and here I am.
My last
post was an internal debate over the educational future of my twins. To home school,
private school (not that we have any viable options in that arena), or to
public school-that was the current hot topic. After much soul searching,
praying, and just pondering in general, we decided to give public school a
shot!
I have
to admit, I was so torn that I actually acquired a home school kindergarten
curriculum “just in case” as well as enrolled them in public school. I thought
this way I’d be good to go no matter what we ultimately decided ;) (Yes, I was
a Girl Scout, and yes, one of my many mottos is “always be prepared”.)
With the
girls in school, and loving it, I now have a few minutes here and there to
spare and writing is what I love, so I kind of think it’s only fair to myself
to go for it. So here I am, going for it!
Now how
to catch up on all that’s went on in 5 months?!
IDK, but
I’m going to try!
Parenting Four Year Olds-Great Education Debate
4/07/2013 11:23:00 AM Posted by mommy2twincesses
Just to think that DH and I are now parenting four year
olds blows my mind. It seems like such a short time ago that I was happily
growing our identical baby girls inside me and here I sit now facing the fact
that they’re FOUR………..how did this happen?!
I’ve enjoyed them more than I could ever express with
simple words and up to this point each birthday has left me feeling energized
and like a conqueror, however, the 4th birthday was a bit of a
different story. At 4 years old, its official, they’re not “babies” anymore.
They’re, *gasp*, PRESCHOOLERS! Holy smokes! And again I shout, HOW DID THIS
HAPPEN?!
I’ve been so blessed to have been able to stay at home
with our little darlings this whole time and now suddenly that they’re FOUR I’m
having to face the music that school, of some sort, is right around the corner.
Yes, we’ve discussed school plans here and there and
thought we knew what we’d do, but now that the time is actually here, I’m sick
to my stomach, and we’re totally stumped! We live in an area of very limited
educational opportunities. We’re pretty much faced with entrusting the public school
system-of which ours fair “so-so” at best-or homeschooling, and just thinking
about that scares the jeepers out of me! The closest private option is an hour’s
drive away and tuition is sky high, so that’s not an ideal solution either. Can
you say “major case of heartburn” brewing?!
At four years old the girls could start pre-kindergarten
at the public school just blocks from our house. Registration is only about a
month away and I have no clue what to do!
One side of my brain is saying, “hold to your babies as
long as you can, they’ll have to start next year-in some form or another” but
the other side says, “send them to school-they’ll enjoy it, you’ll have time to
reclaim your sanity after 4 years at home with two little ones”, so what is a
body to do?!
I’m in serious need of counseling here! Opinions?! I need
to hear both sides, the “keep them at homes” and the “send them to schools”……….please,
help a sister out!
Favorite Disney Cruise Keepsake-Signed Photo Mat
2/11/2013 11:33:00 AM Posted by mommy2twincesses
Before our first family Disney cruise I did tons of
research looking for the best tips and secrets of DCL passengers. I compiled a
list here-Disney
Cruise Insider Tips and Secrets-and this post is dedicated to my favorite
one, taking items to guest services for signing!
Before we left I had several different ideas of things
for the characters to sign. I had a hard time deciding between t-shirts,
autograph bears, pillow cases, and a photo frame/mat. I ultimately chose the
photo mat and I’m SO glad I did!
Here’s my thinking: t-shirts would be too small in no
time and I really didn’t want them to wear and possibly ruin them, autograph
bears would take up too much room in our luggage, a pillow case would get dirty
because I’m sure mine would want to sleep on it and I’m afraid of it ruining
after several washes, and I never found an actual signable photo frame that I
liked-so, photo mat it was!
The photo mat was virtually flat and weightless which
made packing it a piece of cake, it’s not something that we’ll outgrow, will
wear out, or take up too much room, so for us, it was the perfect choice!
Along with the photo frame I took a Ziplock bag full of
brightly colored Sharpie markers and a little “thank
you” gift for the crew to guest services the first night on board. They
gave me a slip of paper to fill out which just asked our basic information
including cabin number so it could be returned to us the last night of our
trip.
This is what we got back! We LOVE it!
I printed out pictures of us with the different
characters and will change the photo out from time to time. It’s hands down our
favorite keepsake from our Disney cruise and will be treasured forever!